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So, what is Therapist Uncensored all about?

We have fun translating the complex relational sciences and psychology into understandable and practical tools that can give you the power you need to uncover your best self. (Believe us, your people will be so happy.)

We will help you understand how to update and reset your unconscious expectations of yourself and others. These changes can have life-changing impacts on your mind, your choice of partners, your parenting, your social relationships, your work life and how you interact in the world.

Sounds too good to be true, but fortunately the science is very clear, and hopeful… and we want everyone to have access to it.

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 Two million+ downloads (what?!)

Apple-Ranked Top 10 Social Science Podcast & Top 50 Science Podcast

 

Thank you! So much great information !

I am a counselor, mostly with children. However, I have learned so much about adults, polyvagal theory, attachment myself and narcissism. So appreciate your work and your guests!

Taylor63toys

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2020-04-22T07:21:26+00:00

Taylor63toys

I am a counselor, mostly with children. However, I have learned so much about adults, polyvagal theory, attachment myself and narcissism. So appreciate your work and your guests!

You have something important to say and I'm grateful you are saying it!

I love you ladies. I get so much from each episode. I am a practicing counselor and it really helps me in my daily work and my personal life. Thank you so much for this show

Angie Land - United States - November 3, 2021

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2021-11-05T18:51:06+00:00

Angie Land - United States - November 3, 2021

I love you ladies. I get so much from each episode. I am a practicing counselor and it really helps me in my daily work and my personal life. Thank you so much for this show

Invaluable Resource

During these troubling fields, this podcast continues to equip listeners like me with cutting-edge tools to regulate emotions during the darkest of storms, and to help those in your spheres of influence. The guests interviewed always amaze me. I cannot express the words to thank the hosts for their service. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU!

HipHopRapture

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2020-04-22T07:57:48+00:00

HipHopRapture

During these troubling fields, this podcast continues to equip listeners like me with cutting-edge tools to regulate emotions during the darkest of storms, and to help those in your spheres of influence. The guests interviewed always amaze me. I cannot express the words to thank the hosts for their service. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU!

Happy to have found u

I am so happy to have found this podcast. I find it an invaluable resource as a working counselor. Not only does it provide information, but it also provides a pick me up if you are teetering on the edge of burnout.

malpalOG

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2020-05-15T14:35:38+00:00

malpalOG

I am so happy to have found this podcast. I find it an invaluable resource as a working counselor. Not only does it provide information, but it also provides a pick me up if you are teetering on the edge of burnout.

I Love your podcast!

I appreciate every episode, it’s such high quality information, amazing guests, and you two are so much fun!

Stephanie Salido

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2020-05-15T14:37:08+00:00

Stephanie Salido

I appreciate every episode, it’s such high quality information, amazing guests, and you two are so much fun!

Thank you Ann and Sue

If you need to be reminded that there are exceptional humans in the world doing generous things with their talents & spreading compassion then listen to this podcast. If you want to become a better human yourself... if you want to feel like you are earning an honorary psychology degree by listening to an entertaining, fascinating and addictive podcast then give this a listen. If you have any interpersonal relationships that you care about making the best they can be... then you will be amazed at what you can learn.

madamezauum

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2020-05-07T14:09:57+00:00

madamezauum

If you need to be reminded that there are exceptional humans in the world doing generous things with their talents & spreading compassion then listen to this podcast. If you want to become a better human yourself... if you want to feel like you are earning an honorary psychology degree by listening to an entertaining, fascinating and addictive podcast then give this a listen. If you have any interpersonal relationships that you care about making the best they can be... then you will be amazed at what you can learn.

An incredible resource! 

You ever listen to a podcast and think “wow, I can’t believe this is free”? That’s me with Therapist Uncensored. This show is a hugely valuable resource for both therapists and individuals on a path of self-exploration. The conversations Sue and Ann facilitate are always super engaging...

- Oliviabaker13 · United States of America · 08/02/21
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2021-08-12T04:39:06+00:00
You ever listen to a podcast and think “wow, I can’t believe this is free”? That’s me with Therapist Uncensored. This show is a hugely valuable resource for both therapists and individuals on a path of self-exploration. The conversations Sue and Ann facilitate are always super engaging... - Oliviabaker13 · United States of America · 08/02/21

Blew me away!

I am a clinical psychologist with 18 years of experience. I just listened to your dismissive/avoidance podcast, and was extremely impressed! You unpack the theories with such skill, lightness, and fun. Your ability to articulate the client's perspective was excellent. Thank you for sharing your talents and gifts with us! - a fan in KC

Drjillt

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2020-06-27T22:20:17+00:00

Drjillt

I am a clinical psychologist with 18 years of experience. I just listened to your dismissive/avoidance podcast, and was extremely impressed! You unpack the theories with such skill, lightness, and fun. Your ability to articulate the client's perspective was excellent. Thank you for sharing your talents and gifts with us! - a fan in KC

Game Changing

I geek out on clinically-oriented podcasts, and these women seem to find the perfect balance of being accessible yet highly instructive... they don't shout into the mic or pontificate. they are humble, grateful life-long learners who find joy in sharing cutting edge knowledge and high-end guests. Suddenly long-drives have become most bearable...thank you so much.

Waynengwrites

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2020-05-07T14:10:55+00:00

Waynengwrites

I geek out on clinically-oriented podcasts, and these women seem to find the perfect balance of being accessible yet highly instructive... they don't shout into the mic or pontificate. they are humble, grateful life-long learners who find joy in sharing cutting edge knowledge and high-end guests. Suddenly long-drives have become most bearable...thank you so much.

Thank You!

Thank you, ladies. This is such helpful work you’re doing!

confused_explorer

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2020-05-15T14:34:36+00:00

confused_explorer

Thank you, ladies. This is such helpful work you’re doing!

Super interesting and helpful

As a psychology student I started looking for a podcast on some interesting topics. This is the absolute most interesting podcast I found. I really love how Ann & Sue and their guests present these interesting topics and explain them so clearly. I often share podcast with my fellow students, teachers or even with non-psy friends, because they break the topics down so well. I just finished episode 98 and am still so enthusiastic about this podcast, so I finally subscribed as a Patron to support these amazing women create more content! I can’t wait to continue with the next episode!

Iris_1024 from The Netherlands

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2021-04-02T23:05:03+00:00

Iris_1024 from The Netherlands

As a psychology student I started looking for a podcast on some interesting topics. This is the absolute most interesting podcast I found. I really love how Ann & Sue and their guests present these interesting topics and explain them so clearly. I often share podcast with my fellow students, teachers or even with non-psy friends, because they break the topics down so well. I just finished episode 98 and am still so enthusiastic about this podcast, so I finally subscribed as a Patron to support these amazing women create more content! I can’t wait to continue with the next episode!

WOW

Just discovered your podcast and I can't stop listening! I am a huge geek on my own with these topics, but even more, I am married to a narcissist. I so appreciate all of the technical aspects and practical tips. Life changing!

mominwashington

Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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2020-05-15T14:36:29+00:00

mominwashington

Just discovered your podcast and I can't stop listening! I am a huge geek on my own with these topics, but even more, I am married to a narcissist. I so appreciate all of the technical aspects and practical tips. Life changing!

Fantastic

They're smart, clever, interesting, and funny down to earth women are the real deal. I have really stuck gold listening to such deep, meaningful and relevant topics on relationships , evidenced based healing. . I highly recommend this podcast on every level. Inner help, life help and and accessible . Thank- you 🙏💖

Ediebouvier - Australia - November 2, 2021

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2021-11-05T18:53:54+00:00

Ediebouvier - Australia - November 2, 2021

They're smart, clever, interesting, and funny down to earth women are the real deal. I have really stuck gold listening to such deep, meaningful and relevant topics on relationships , evidenced based healing. . I highly recommend this podcast on every level. Inner help, life help and and accessible . Thank- you 🙏💖

Honest, Helpful, & Informative

Thank you for producing a podcast that is unbiased, informative and to the point. So happy to have found you here!

Oliveblue

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2020-04-22T07:22:37+00:00

Oliveblue

Thank you for producing a podcast that is unbiased, informative and to the point. So happy to have found you here!

Amazing Source!

This podcast brings together all the insightful theories and approaches (attachment, development, neurobiology, survival adaptations, polyvagal, trauma, etc.) in a practical way that really relates to actual real-life processes of development, stuckness, growth, and change. Great appreciation for the nuanced and encompassing approach. I look forward to learning more from the podcast and from their other resources.

EatingOats - The Netherlands - November 4, 2021

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2021-11-05T18:47:13+00:00

EatingOats - The Netherlands - November 4, 2021

This podcast brings together all the insightful theories and approaches (attachment, development, neurobiology, survival adaptations, polyvagal, trauma, etc.) in a practical way that really relates to actual real-life processes of development, stuckness, growth, and change. Great appreciation for the nuanced and encompassing approach. I look forward to learning more from the podcast and from their other resources.

So informative and fun!

I’m hooked on this podcast! They’re so educational yet also captivating (not dry). They have tons of credible guest speakers, and there’s always new information. Well worth a listen!

Hannah9098753578

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2020-04-22T07:57:17+00:00

Hannah9098753578

I’m hooked on this podcast! They’re so educational yet also captivating (not dry). They have tons of credible guest speakers, and there’s always new information. Well worth a listen!

Really helpful

Thank you so much for the information. I currently work with homeless women as a therapist and love love my job. Would love to hear more about best practices to use when working with homeless population and how to advocate for them..., and more, if you could do a episode on that topic I’d would be very grateful

Beejoon

Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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2020-04-22T07:58:22+00:00

Beejoon

Thank you so much for the information. I currently work with homeless women as a therapist and love love my job. Would love to hear more about best practices to use when working with homeless population and how to advocate for them..., and more, if you could do a episode on that topic I’d would be very grateful

Exceptional And Essential Listening

This podcast has been invaluable to me on a personal and professional level. Depending my understanding and practice of maintaining boundaries, learning to play catch instead of ping pong in the way i communicate. Sue and Anne are fantastic, clear and incredibly knowledgeable hosts who really hold the listener through the learning and discovery journey. As a parent of an adult son with bipolar and regulation challenges your series holding your own has been truly wonderful and at the end of the challenging year that was 2020 ... came at the perfect time. Thank you 🙂

Lola&Sim via Apple Podcasts ·Australia ·12/14/2020

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2020-12-18T22:37:16+00:00

Lola&Sim via Apple Podcasts ·Australia ·12/14/2020

This podcast has been invaluable to me on a personal and professional level. Depending my understanding and practice of maintaining boundaries, learning to play catch instead of ping pong in the way i communicate. Sue and Anne are fantastic, clear and incredibly knowledgeable hosts who really hold the listener through the learning and discovery journey. As a parent of an adult son with bipolar and regulation challenges your series holding your own has been truly wonderful and at the end of the challenging year that was 2020 ... came at the perfect time. Thank you 🙂

Thank you! So much great information!

I am a counselor, mostly with children. However, I have learned so much about adults, polyvagal theory, attachment myself and narcissism. So appreciate your work and your guests!


Taylor63toys

Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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2020-06-28T19:14:39+00:00

Taylor63toys

I am a counselor, mostly with children. However, I have learned so much about adults, polyvagal theory, attachment myself and narcissism. So appreciate your work and your guests!

Love this podcast

For me this is the best podcast there is when it comes to anything to do with understanding ourselves and how we relate to each other on deeper levels. I share this a lot with other healthcare professionals and clients and always trust that the standard is very high and the content up to date / accessible / delivered in a really lovely way.

Dunmore2013

Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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2020-04-22T07:54:44+00:00

Dunmore2013

For me this is the best podcast there is when it comes to anything to do with understanding ourselves and how we relate to each other on deeper levels. I share this a lot with other healthcare professionals and clients and always trust that the standard is very high and the content up to date / accessible / delivered in a really lovely way.
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Therapist Uncensored Podcast

Candid unscripted conversations rooted in modern attachment and the newly emerging sciences of the mind will deeply inform, entertain and even surprise you.

Learn how to outsmart your biology and improve your relationships with others.

This podcast will break down what makes you and yours emotionally tick… and tock.  So join us, dive in with co-hosts Sue Marriott & Dr. Ann Kelley, as well as their array of rock-star guest experts.

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We are still excited by the exceptional opportunity to learn directly from Dr. George and for the privilege we have in getting to sit down with so many incredible experts in the field of attachment and the relational sciences. We thought there was no better way to follow up than to bring you an in-depth session with Ann and Sue to really get into the heart of attachment assessment. Follow along as they explore what attachment really means, how research has evolved, and how it is relevant on a clinical level. Guided by excerpts from the conversation with Dr. George, they share personal stories, and their own knowledge of the topic to give you 40 minutes of insightful, candid conversation to expand your knowledge even greater. You won't want to miss it!

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This is an incredible opportunity to sit with a legend in the field of attachment research! Dr. Carol George worked directly with Mary Main, and her dissertation lead to the Adult Attachment Inventory (AAI). She and Sue Marriott discuss wide-ranging topics all with the eye on using the whole of this research in real life and in the clinical setting. Learn about the Adult Attachment Projective, the history of the research and more about this incredible woman who is a living legend.

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TU161: Managing Unconscious Defense & Fear with Ann Kelley PhD and Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP

TU161: Managing Unconscious Defense & Fear with Ann Kelley PhD and Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP

Overcome defense and fear – Catch up with hosts Ann Kelley and Sue Marriott while they discuss the difference between cognitive understanding of modern attachment and regulation and the bottom-up experience of it. We distort information coming in – either by not registering interpersonal information or by over-interpreting the importance of an exchange (up-regulating with fear). This is an unconscious process that to undo we have to have the courage and the resources to feel the feelings that cause us to defend. They walk through it with you they don't just tell you what to do, so join us in understanding our own defensive process. Find episode notes at therapistuncensored.com/episodes.

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SUE MARRIOTT, LCSW, CGP & ANN KELLY, Ph.D.  

Ann Kelley Ph.D. and Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP are highly experienced licensed therapists that provide candid and focused education to help you bring awareness to the unconscious patterns in your life that get in your way.

We provide education, insights, challenges and our own mistakes and reflections on how we got through these life-long patterns.

No matter what your history or what your age, there is hope to keep developing your secure self, which helps grow closeness with those you love.

Meet Your Cohosts

SUE MARRIOTT, LCSW, CGP & ANN KELLY, Ph.D. 

Ann Kelley Ph.D. and Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP are highly experienced licensed therapists that provide candid and focused education to help you bring awareness to the unconscious patterns in your life that get in your way.

We provide education, insights, challenges and our own mistakes and reflections on how we got through these life-long patterns.

No matter what your history or what your age, there is hope to keep developing your secure self, which helps grow closeness with those you love.

ANN KELLY, Ph.D. & SUE MARRIOTT, LCSW, CGP

Deepen your relationships and demystify your own interpersonal blocks by learning how to use the sciences of the mind.

We want to help each of you become a little more secure, not as a feeling but as a neurological fact. If you are interested in learning how to outsmart your biology and transform into the most relational and confident version of you, then you are our people.

Our audience is intentionally wide- it includes everyone from seasoned therapists, students in the field, other professions that can benefit from knowing how to deeply understand people, those injured by early relationships, and those life-long learners interested in staying abreast and helping make the world a little more secure.

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