TU 2023 Year in Review: Building Internalized Secure Voices (221)

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Goodbye 2023, Hello 2024 – Reflecting on impactful guests & topics of the year

We explored many ideas this year and despite the variety of topics we found a consistent theme – nurturing secure relating in an insecure world. With wide-ranging interviews and, we were met with rich conversations and endless opportunities to grow. As we close out 2023 with gratitude, Ann and Sue look back at important episodes from this year, review lessons learned, and share exciting announcements to come in 2024.

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“When we are in a secure state of mind, we evoke that in others.” – Sue Marriott

Time Stamps for TU 2023 Year in Review

4:21 – Reviewing the series, Secure Relating in an Insecure World

7:45 – Ann and Sue's favorite topics from the series

17:45 – Takeaways from our two-part Dream series

22:47 – Explanation of failed mourning from episode 210 with Dr. Carol George

29:46 – How Ann and Sue practiced self-care this year

31:28 – Looking deeper into systems of poverty with Dr. Sharon Lambert

36:33 – Exploring our internal audiences

43:01 – Important lessons from the episode 207 with Dacher Keltner

45:40 – Austin IN Connection Live Event Announcement for 2024:  It will be a Secure Relating LIVE weekend!  Stay tuned – but we welcome those traveling and will make sure there are plenty of opportunities to connect!

Resources for TU 2023 Year in Review

This Jungian Life – A podcast from our guests on episode 201 that dives into Jungian dream analysis

Other Relevant Therapist Uncensored Episodes

Healing Intergenerational and Ancestral Trauma with Linda Thai (Series SRIW, Ep 5, 206)

Navigating Racial Trauma & Identity with Gliceria Pérez & Debra Chatman-Finley Part 2 (SRIW Series, Ep 2, 203)

Intergenerational Conversation on Climate with a Young Adult Homesteader (Secure Relating in an Insecure World, new series) Ep.202

Interpreting Dreams with a Jungian Lens: Unlocking a World Within Ourselves (201)

Awe: A Powerful Tool for Collective Healing with Dr. Dacher Keltner (Series SRIW, Ep 6, 207)

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